Learning to Sleep Again: How Rest Became Part of My Recovery

For a long time, I treated sleep like an optional suggestion. If I was exhausted, anxious, doom-scrolling my phone, or replaying old mistakes in my head, I’d just say, “I’ll be fine. I don’t need that much sleep anyway.” Then I’d drag myself through the next day on caffeine, sugar, and pure anxiety. Spoiler: IContinue reading “Learning to Sleep Again: How Rest Became Part of My Recovery”

Living with ADHD: How Medication and Therapy Help Me Show Up to My Own Life

I didn’t wake up one day and suddenly “get” ADHD. It’s been with me my whole life—long before I had a name for it. Looking back, I can see it in the half-finished projects, the “I’ll do it later” that turned into never, the report cards that said “smart, but doesn’t focus.” I always thoughtContinue reading “Living with ADHD: How Medication and Therapy Help Me Show Up to My Own Life”

Christ the King Sunday: Who Has My Allegiance?

Today’s service started like a lot of Sundays do—kids heading out with Miss Twila and the others, ushers coming forward, the offering plates moving up and down the rows. But underneath all the usual church motions, there was a theme that kept coming back around: Who really has my allegiance? Who is my King? AContinue reading “Christ the King Sunday: Who Has My Allegiance?”

God of Second Chances (and Third, and Twentieth)

There were so many nights I thought, Well, that’s it. I’ve blown it for good this time. You know those moments—the ones where you’ve messed up so badly that even you don’t want to look in the mirror. The ones where you’re sure God has finally had enough. Where you’re convinced you used up yourContinue reading “God of Second Chances (and Third, and Twentieth)”

Inner Peace and Love: Learning to Breathe Again

There’s a different kind of quiet than just “no noise.” It’s that calm that shows up in your chest when you finally stop fighting yourself. That’s inner peace. And most of the time, it’s built on one thing we forget to give ourselves: love. Not the movie kind of love. Not the fake social mediaContinue reading “Inner Peace and Love: Learning to Breathe Again”

If I Could Meet Anyone from History: Why I’d Choose 2Pac

If you could meet a historical figure, who would it be and why? Some people say presidents, inventors, or famous leaders. Me? I’d pick Tupac Amaru Shakur—2Pac. Not because he was perfect. Not because I agree with every lyric, every decision, or every headline attached to his name. I’d pick 2Pac because he was honestContinue reading “If I Could Meet Anyone from History: Why I’d Choose 2Pac”

Faith and Recovery – Why I Need Both

I used to think I had to pick one lane. Either I was going to be “the church guy” who just prayed harder…or “the recovery guy” who just went to meetings and did the steps. Now I know the truth:I need both.If I drop either one—my faith or my recovery—things start slipping fast. Church: RememberingContinue reading “Faith and Recovery – Why I Need Both”

Gratitude When Life Still Hurts

Holidays are funny.You see all the pictures online—matching pajamas, smiling kids, big family dinners—and it looks like everyone else is living inside a Christmas movie. Meanwhile, some of us are just trying to make it through the day without breaking down. If that’s you, I want you to know this: you’re not broken because gratitudeContinue reading “Gratitude When Life Still Hurts”

If I Perish, I Perish: How a Sunday Sermon Challenged My Faith and Recovery

Walking into church this morning, it felt like one of those Sundays where the air is already charged before the first song ends. Kids heading one way, ushers moving the other, people shuffling bulletins and coffee cups, “Amen” and “Hallelujah” bouncing around the room. Just a normal Sunday… until it isn’t. Today we walked throughContinue reading “If I Perish, I Perish: How a Sunday Sermon Challenged My Faith and Recovery”

Balancing Act: Navigating Everyday Life with Bipolar Disorder

Living with bipolar disorder can present unique challenges, but with the right strategies and support, individuals can manage their condition effectively. Here are some helpful tips for everyday life with bipolar disorder: Remember that bipolar disorder is a manageable condition, and with the right combination of treatment, support, and self-care, individuals can lead fulfilling andContinue reading “Balancing Act: Navigating Everyday Life with Bipolar Disorder”

Embracing a Holistic Approach to Mental Well-Being

Self-care practices are fundamental pillars in fostering mental health. Introducing techniques such as mindfulness, exercise, and maintaining healthy sleep habits can empower individuals to manage stress and enhance overall well-being. Equally significant is the role of nutrition in mental health, as a balanced diet provides essential nutrients that contribute to cognitive function and emotional stability.BuildingContinue reading “Embracing a Holistic Approach to Mental Well-Being”

Putting Yourself First: How to Have a Productive and Fulfilling Day

Having a good day is all about focusing on yourself and your priorities. It’s important to take care of yourself first before you can take care of others. Here are some tips to help you have a productive and fulfilling day: Remember, having a good day is all about taking care of yourself and focusingContinue reading “Putting Yourself First: How to Have a Productive and Fulfilling Day”

5 Simple Tips for Building Confidence and Self-Esteem in Social Situations

Building confidence and self-esteem is a lifelong process, and it can be especially challenging when it comes to social situations. Some people might feel nervous or uncomfortable around others, which can lead to self-doubt and a lack of confidence. However, there are some simple steps you can take to build confidence and self-esteem in socialContinue reading “5 Simple Tips for Building Confidence and Self-Esteem in Social Situations”