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Joy When You’re Misunderstood

A Reflection From Today’s Church Service There’s a kind of joy that feels easy to talk about—joy when life is going well, when prayers get answered fast, when the calendar is calm, when your heart feels light. And then there’s the other kind of joy. The kind that shows up when life is…

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Faith Without the Hype: How I Look at “Miracles” Now

I’ve noticed something over the years—people call everything a miracle. A parking spot at the right time? “Miracle.”A crazy coincidence? “Miracle.”And then you get the really wild stuff online… like people saying they see Jesus’ face on food or random objects. I’m not here to clown anybody, because I believe God can do…

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The Day the “Functioning” Part Broke

He wasn’t the guy passed out in an alley. He was the guy who showed up. He showed up to work. Showed up to birthdays. Showed up to the grocery store in clean clothes. He answered texts. He paid bills (mostly on time). He laughed at the right moments. He held doors for…

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Telling the Truth Is Easier Than Keeping Up With Lies

Lying always feels simple in the moment. You’re caught, you’re scared, you’re embarrassed, and your brain throws out the quickest escape route: “Just say this. It’ll make the problem go away.” But it never really goes away, does it? Once you tell a lie, you don’t just change the story—you start a second…

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Giving Back: Lifting Each Other Up

Giving back to the community doesn’t have to be big or fancy. It can be something as simple as serving a meal at a soup kitchen or sitting down to play cards with someone who’s disabled or lonely. Those little moments tell people, “You matter. I see you.” We live in a world…

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Verse of the Day: John 10:10

“The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy:I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”— John 10:10 (KJV) John 10:10 is one of those verses that hits straight at the heart of what life with Jesus is really about.…

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Verse of the Day: God Is Close to the Brokenhearted

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”— Psalm 34:18 Some days, our hearts don’t just feel heavy—they feel shattered. Maybe it’s grief, addiction, guilt, family struggles, loneliness, or that quiet ache that shows up for no clear reason at all. On those days, it’s easy…

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Depression Hits Different During the Holidays

The holidays are supposed to be “the most wonderful time of the year,” right? That’s what the movies say. That’s what social media shows. That’s what the commercials keep telling us—big smiling families, matching pajamas, perfect dinners, kids ripping open gifts around a glowing tree. But for a lot of us, that’s not…

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Verse for the Day – 1 Corinthians 15:57

“But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” — 1 Corinthians 15:57 Some days, the word victory feels far away. We wake up tired, worn out, or already stressed before our feet even hit the floor. Old habits tug at us. Anxiety, depression, anger, or cravings…

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When God Feels Silent but Isn’t

A snowy Sunday kept me home watching church on TV, but the message still hit deep—especially with Miss Twila bringing the service. She shared the story of Zechariah and Elizabeth, reminding us that God hears our prayers, works in what feels impossible, and is never done writing our stories. This post is about…

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Thanksgiving: Grateful for a Second Chance at Life

Thanksgiving used to be just another day on the calendar for me—a blur of food, football, and trying to numb whatever I didn’t want to feel. This year is different. This year, I’m actually present for it. I can feel it. I can name what I’m thankful for without slurring my words or…

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Managing My Anger: Learning Not to Explode First

Anger has always been one of my hardest battles. I don’t just “get annoyed”—I can go from calm to ready-to-snap in about two seconds if I’m not careful. Sometimes it’s over big things, but if I’m honest, it’s often over little stuff: a text that sounds off, someone cutting me off in conversation,…

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Christ the King Sunday: Who Has My Allegiance?

Today’s service started like a lot of Sundays do—kids heading out with Miss Twila and the others, ushers coming forward, the offering plates moving up and down the rows. But underneath all the usual church motions, there was a theme that kept coming back around: Who really has my allegiance? Who is my…

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When Faith Has a Sense of Humor

A lot of people hear the word faith and picture serious faces, bowed heads, and quiet rooms. And yeah, there’s a place for that. But for me, walking with God also looks like eye rolls, nervous laughter, and shaking my head at some of the ridiculous situations I’ve gotten myself into. If I…

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God of Second Chances (and Third, and Twentieth)

There were so many nights I thought, Well, that’s it. I’ve blown it for good this time. You know those moments—the ones where you’ve messed up so badly that even you don’t want to look in the mirror. The ones where you’re sure God has finally had enough. Where you’re convinced you used…

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Inner Peace and Love: Learning to Breathe Again

There’s a different kind of quiet than just “no noise.” It’s that calm that shows up in your chest when you finally stop fighting yourself. That’s inner peace. And most of the time, it’s built on one thing we forget to give ourselves: love. Not the movie kind of love. Not the fake…

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Faith and Recovery – Why I Need Both

I used to think I had to pick one lane. Either I was going to be “the church guy” who just prayed harder…or “the recovery guy” who just went to meetings and did the steps. Now I know the truth:I need both.If I drop either one—my faith or my recovery—things start slipping fast.…

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Gratitude When Life Still Hurts

Holidays are funny.You see all the pictures online—matching pajamas, smiling kids, big family dinners—and it looks like everyone else is living inside a Christmas movie. Meanwhile, some of us are just trying to make it through the day without breaking down. If that’s you, I want you to know this: you’re not broken…

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Prayer: The Conversation That Changed My Life

If you’d told me a few years ago that I’d be writing a blog about prayer, I probably would’ve laughed—or rolled my eyes. I believed in God, sure, but I treated Him more like a last-resort hotline than a Father who wanted to walk with me every day. Now, prayer is woven into…

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Why It’s Okay to Be “Selfish” in Recovery

Most of us grew up hearing: “You’re selfish.” “You only think about yourself.” Then addiction came and proved that true in ugly ways. We lied, used, and hurt people. So now, in recovery, the last thing we want is to be called selfish again. But here’s the twist: In recovery, you actually have…

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Family & Communication: Learning to Listen Through the Storm

Every family argues. Every family disagrees. But what separates families that grow stronger from those that drift apart is one simple thing — communication. It’s easy to love people when everything’s peaceful, when opinions match, and no one’s feelings are bruised. The real test of love shows up in those tense, uncomfortable moments…

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Veterans Day: Showing Up Matters

Veterans Day looks simple from the outside—flags, parades, sales, “thank you for your service” posts. For a lot of veterans, it’s not that simple. It can be a day that stirs up pride and pain. Memories they don’t talk about. Faces they still see. Questions that never really got answers. If you’re a…

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Forgiveness Isn’t Weak – It’s Warfare

I went to Bible study last night and walked out realizing something big: forgiveness isn’t just a “nice” thing to do – it’s a fight. We read Mark 11:22–25, where Jesus says to pray, believe, receive… and forgive. If we don’t forgive, our prayers hit a wall. Not because God is mad, but…

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Verse of the Day: Don’t Give Up Doing Good

“So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.” — Galatians 6:9 (NLT) Life has a way of testing our patience and faith. Sometimes it feels like we’re doing all the right things — staying…

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Self-Care: When You’re Trying Not to Disappear

There are days you don’t want to die, but you also don’t really want to be here. You’re breathing, but it feels like you’re fading. You’re not in crisis enough to call it an emergency… but you’re not okay either. This is for those days. Not a ten-step miracle cure. Just a handful…

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BOUNDARIES

There’s a certain kind of guilt that creeps in when you finally start saying no. It’s the kind that doesn’t come from doing something wrong—but from doing something right for the first time. That guilt you feel for setting boundaries isn’t a flaw in your character. It’s a wound. A wound that comes…

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A Boy Is Born, But a Man Is Built

A boy is born, but a man is built. Manhood isn’t something that just comes with age — it’s something that’s forged through pain, shaped by failure, and strengthened through every heartbreak, rejection, and loss you face along the way. Some people think turning eighteen or hitting thirty automatically makes you a man.…

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Healing Through EMDR

I’ve been doing EMDR therapy again for a couple of months now, and even though it’s still fairly recent, this isn’t my first time going through it. A few years ago, I spent almost a full year doing EMDR with a different therapist — and that experience planted the first real seeds of…

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Honesty and Self-Love — What It Means to Me

Honesty used to scare me. Not the kind where you tell someone the truth about what you did, but the kind where you have to look yourself in the mirror and face the truth about who you are. That kind of honesty hits different — it’s raw, it’s uncomfortable, and it doesn’t come…

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“Make the Most of Every Day”

Life is too short to spend in arguments or anger. God didn’t bless us with another day so we could waste it on things that steal our peace. Instead, we’re called to love one another, forgive quickly, and live with gratitude in our hearts. Count your blessings — even the ones that seem…

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Some People Are Just Human Medicine

By Josh Bridges You ever meet someone who just makes the world feel a little lighter? The kind of person who doesn’t have to say much — their presence alone feels like peace. That’s what I call human medicine. You spend an hour with them, and suddenly your heart doesn’t feel as heavy,…

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“They’ll Have to Heal from Me”

“Knowing my kids will have to heal from me because I was late healing myself… and I carry that deep in my chest.” That line stopped me cold. Because it’s real. It’s raw. And it’s me. As a parent in recovery, as someone who’s battled depression, addiction, and my own demons, I know…

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🙏 A Wake-Up Call from the Book of Amos

By Josh Bridges Today at church, we talked about the Book of Amos — and man, it hit home. Amos isn’t one of those books people talk about every Sunday, but it’s one that speaks straight to the heart. It’s a wake-up call, plain and simple. Amos was a prophet sent to warn…

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The Strength in Self-Awareness and Asking for Help

The Strength in Self-Awareness and Asking for Help By Josh Bridges | YouRnotaLone.Life There’s a moment in every person’s life when they have to look in the mirror and face what’s really going on inside. Not the version we show to the world — the one that smiles and says, “I’m fine.” I’m…

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Verse of the Day

Bible Verse of the Day: Isaiah 41:10 Published on October 30, 2025 “Fear not, for I am with you;be not dismayed, for I am your God;I will strengthen you, I will help you,I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”— Isaiah 41:10 (ESV) Reflection There are days when fear creeps in quietly…

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Coming Back Strong

Why I’m Blogging Again It’s been a while since I sat down at the computer and poured my thoughts out for the world to see. For a long time, I wasn’t sure if I’d ever do it again. Life has a way of pulling us in different directions — sometimes toward the light,…

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Spread Love, Not Hate: A Call to Embrace Compassion

In a world filled with diverse perspectives and experiences, it’s crucial to recognize the power we hold in choosing our attitudes and actions. Instead of succumbing to negativity and animosity, let’s make a conscious decision to spread love, not hate. This blog delves into the importance of embracing compassion and understanding, fostering a…

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“Exploring Perspectives: Religion, Atheism, and Agnosticism”

Religion has been a cornerstone of human existence, shaping cultures, societies, and individual lives. As a Christian, I find immense value in my faith, but it’s essential to recognize that the world is diverse, and people hold varying beliefs, including atheism and agnosticism. In this blog, we’ll explore the reasons why some individuals…

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Empowering Change: Breaking the Cycle with Parenting Classes and Family Therapy

Destructive parenting, marked by harmful behaviors like abuse or neglect, can deeply impact a child’s well-being, influencing their self-esteem and ability to form healthy relationships. However, there’s hope and help available. Parenting classes are a beacon of positivity, equipping parents with valuable skills and insights. These classes promote effective communication, positive discipline, and…

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Navigating the 2024 Election: My Choice to Vote for Trump

As we approach the 2024 election, the political landscape is once again at the forefront of national discussions. It’s a time for individuals to reflect on their values, beliefs, and the qualities they seek in a leader. In this blog, we’ll explore my thoughts on why I’ve chosen to cast my vote for…

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“The Road to Recovery: Understanding the Importance of Rehab for Drugs and Alcohol”

Embarking on the journey to recovery from drug and alcohol addiction is a courageous and transformative process. Rehab plays a pivotal role in providing individuals with the tools and support needed to overcome substance abuse. In this blog, we’ll delve into the significance of rehab, explore the various types of rehabilitation programs available,…

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Balancing Act: Navigating Everyday Life with Bipolar Disorder

Living with bipolar disorder can present unique challenges, but with the right strategies and support, individuals can manage their condition effectively. Here are some helpful tips for everyday life with bipolar disorder: Remember that bipolar disorder is a manageable condition, and with the right combination of treatment, support, and self-care, individuals can lead…

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“Unlocking Healing: The Intensity of EMDR Therapy”

In the realm of mental health, a revolutionary approach has emerged, promising profound healing and transformative change for those grappling with the aftermath of trauma. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy has steadily gained recognition as an intense and effective method for processing and overcoming the haunting effects of traumatic experiences. This…

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Understanding Suicide: A Global Concern

Suicide is a global public health issue with far-reaching consequences that demand our attention. According to World Health Organization (WHO) statistics, approximately 800,000 people die by suicide every year, making it a leading cause of death worldwide. These numbers underscore the urgent need for collective efforts to address the complexities of mental health.Warning…

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Embracing a Holistic Approach to Mental Well-Being

Self-care practices are fundamental pillars in fostering mental health. Introducing techniques such as mindfulness, exercise, and maintaining healthy sleep habits can empower individuals to manage stress and enhance overall well-being. Equally significant is the role of nutrition in mental health, as a balanced diet provides essential nutrients that contribute to cognitive function and…

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Understanding Depression: Unraveling the Layers

Depression, a multifaceted mental health condition, requires a nuanced exploration of its clinical definition. Clinically, depression is characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in daily activities. Distinguishing between everyday sadness and clinical depression is crucial, as the latter involves pervasive and prolonged symptoms that significantly…

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Understanding Depression: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment

People around the world suffer from depression, which is a serious illness. It can be a debilitating condition that impacts every aspect of one’s life. Depression is more than just feeling sad or down; it is a persistent feeling of hopelessness, sadness, and despair that can lead to losing interest in once-enjoyable activities.…

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Breaking Down Mental Health Stigma: A Patient-Centered Approach for Effective Treatment

Mental health stigma can be a real obstacle for those seeking help, leading to discrimination and mistreatment. But, no worries, mental health professionals can work to break down these barriers by putting patients’ needs first, using evidence-based treatments, and respecting patient rights and privacy. By taking a patient-centered approach, mental health professionals can…

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Reflections of Life: A Glimpse into My Journey

Hey everyone, my name is Joshua Bridges I am 40 years old, and I’m excited to share a bit about myself on this blog. I currently live in Lima, Ohio and I’m in my last year and a half of school at Colorado Technical University, where I’m pursuing my Bachelor of Science in…

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Essential Tips for Taking Care of Your Mental Health

Taking care of your mental health is incredibly important, as it can have a significant impact on your overall well-being. There are many different factors that can affect your mental health, such as stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, and more. It’s important to be aware of these factors and to take steps to manage…

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The Climb

A long time ago, in a small village at the foot of a mighty mountain, there lived a boy named Adam. The people in the village believed that their fate was predetermined by destiny, and they could do nothing to change their course of life. However, Adam was different from the rest. He…

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The Impact of Sexual Assault: Understanding the Physical, Emotional, and Stigma-Related Effects on Survivors and Their Families

Sexual assault is a traumatic experience that can have devastating effects on both the individual who experiences it and their family. The immediate aftermath of sexual assault can include physical injuries, emotional distress, and psychological trauma. Victims may experience feelings of shame, guilt, and fear, as well as difficulty sleeping, eating, and functioning…

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October Domestic Violence and ADHD Awareness Month

October is a very significant month as it brings to light two critical issues that have a significant impact on millions of people worldwide. These are Domestic Violence and ADHD. It is a time to raise awareness and educate people about these important topics. This month presents us with an opportunity to show…

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June 2023 National PTSD Awareness Month

As we enter the month of June, we take the opportunity to come together and highlight the importance of addressing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Various traumatic events, including exposure to war, physical, sexual, or verbal assault, and accidents, can trigger this debilitating condition. The symptoms of PTSD are numerous and can include depression,…

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A/D/D/I/C/T/I/O/N

Dealing with addiction can be incredibly challenging, and knowing where to turn for help can be difficult. It’s essential to remember that addiction is a severe illness and not a reflection of someone’s character or strength. Showing your loved one compassion and support is crucial, but it’s also essential to prioritize your well-being…

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PTSD AND ITS EFFECT ON THE BRAIN

Post-traumatic stress disorder, commonly referred to as PTSD, is a severe mental health condition that can significantly impact an individual’s brain. This disorder can arise from exposure to or witnessing a traumatic event, such as military combat, physical or sexual assault, or a natural disaster. Those who have PTSD may experience symptoms such…

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